So she's having questions about her sexuality and whether she's actually where she thought she was on the scale or whether she's been fooling herself and oh gods... I'd almost feel sorry for her, except she's not damn well giving me any blinkin' *story*, just whole heaps of background.
My sympathies. Rufus and Reno refuse to give me enough of a story in my Cetra Restoration AU, so I know how that feels. While Elena by contrast started screaming at me about what her past was like, and why she was a concubine, not a bodyguard or something like that. Perhaps if Nesa's got a friend she could talk to about this she'll figure out it's a 'Sephiroth thing' and gender isn't an issue. Say this friend knows straight men who've got crushes on Sephrioth as well? Heck - depending on how you want to write his non-human aspect perhaps he subconcsiously 'tunes' his pheromones to appeal to a) people he likes and b) people who scare him for some reason (eg Hojo, possibly some of the older ShinRa execs)